Not Doin' So Great

Having gotten through a great portion of Jakes room, I can see that eventually the task will end. I have removed about 3/4 of the things that identified Jake to me ie: his music and movies, clothes and some books but I still need to go through all of his writings and things from when he was a younger child. I am progressing fairly well in the re-organization of my life with things being completed that were on hold for the last couple of years. As I start to see an ending to this portion of my grieving I seem to actually have more saddness. Similiar to reaching the end of a book that you really enjoy. As sad as the ending is you still read to the very last page. Putting away Jakes things, although painfull is sort of like holding on and continuing to read a book when you already know the ending. There is that sad feeling of almost being done but in this case there is not another book to read next. I guess that is why it is called a chapter in our lives. There will be a time when I put away the last part of Jakes life and officially close the physical memories of his lifetime... close the read book so to speak, and that reality makes me sad. All that is left is to continue by creating new stories now about Jake ie: the "Relentless" book and trying to do things that carry on what he has given and taught all of us. I miss him. No matter how much I write about it I cannot explain in words how much I miss that boy.