Monday, January 5, 2009
Thanks for all the support
The comments on this blog continue to increase daily. We appreciate all of them. I should point out however that I never have been in this alone. I have had help from Marci, my children and both of our extended families and friends. I am not so much the "hero" that everyone seems to make me out to be. I was constantly supported by all in my life and this quest. This and my work flexibility has given me the opportunity to be with Jake as much as possible which was a gift for me. The fact that I write the blog might indicate less involvement from others but they simply choose not to write about it. For me, somehow writing this blog makes me feel better
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Dan ~
You write of feeling better about writing this blog, you make me and so many others feel better by reading it. There are a gamut of emotions as I read, but always a different perspective to see. I was lucky enough to have had the priviledge to visit Jake last week. He was sound asleep, but looked like any other healthy boy sleeping in his bed. It was so heartbreaking for me, I can't even begin imagine what you and your family are going through. But I always try to remember that God does have a plan, one that we can see and continue to see clearly - that Jake is an unbelievably brave person who cares about others and was willing to put his fears aside and go to India because he could help other people with cancer - and plans that we cannot see so clearly. I've seen how your home is filled with friends and family, all so supportive and so full of love for Jake. He has touched everyone he's met. I continue to pray for a miracle each day.
Love,
Betsy
Dan,
Jake continues to enrich the lives of others When we visited a week ago my 14 year old daughter, she walked away with the realization on how fragile life can be. She also paid me the highest compliment a father could receive. She said "dad, I know that if I were in Jake's condition that you would care for me as well as Dan cares for Jake". We are with in thought and prayer
Rick
Jake is an amazing, brave young man and my thoughts and prayers are with him. My prayers are also with you, Marci and the family through this difficult time. May God bless your family and bring you peace.
Dan
Nothing can remotely compare to what you are going thru now and if one was in your shoes I don't think one would have the courage to write this blog.
For us out here who cannot come to visit Jake it would be torture not knowing what is happening on the day to day basis.
The selflessness you have to take the time to keep us informed every day is so admirable, it does make you our hero and we thank you so very much from the bottom of our heart.
Because of you we have come to know Jake more intimately and because of you his life will remain eternally in the thoughts of all the people you have touched.
Dan, Marci, Ann, and Alex -
I send you my love and my prayers. Gabi is aware of all that's going on and sends heartfelt prayers for the comfort of her junior high "stalker."
Marci and kids - please be aware that none of us discount your love and support for Jake during the last two years. We've simply gotten used to "talking" to Dan via e-mail or the blog.
Love, Kris
Dear Pastel Family,
There have been countless days that the first words out of my or George's mouth after we greet each other in the evening is, "Did you read Dan's blog today?" Your blog has been so full of love, courage and determination, we read it to stay and informed about Jake, and to be inspired by the way your family has faced this impossibly difficult time with such grace and dignity. It was so sweet to see Jake sleeping yesterday under the quilt that was made for him, but it felt so surreal that you are having to face saying goodbye to him so soon. Through your words, Jake has left his mark on all of our hearts. Our thoughts and love are with you.
Love, Sue, George, Nick, Jaclyn & Elise
Hello my Mr. Dan,
It's your old buddy, Miss Cor...it's been too long. Vicki told me tonight of Jake's status and I about fell apart. I googled Jake's name and found this blog and it made me sad to not have known of it before. I will be home this weekend and wonder if it's possible to see one of my favorite families on Sunday night...I have missed you all so much and it hurts me to see you all hurt. Please let me know what more I can do besides pray...know I love you all very much...801-360-6456.
Your Miss Cor,
Cori Alpert
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